Salam alikum dear shikh I am 36 years old and a mother of four children Mashallah .any way I have been saprated from my husband 7 years ago after having very hard time with him.I am not thinking to go back to him .his remmarge to a new wife and the kids go to see him.he didn't give me divorce and I didn't ask for it becuse I am just focus on my children.. More
Salaamualaikum; Am a Hanafi sunni Muslim, I had given TALAQ telephonic to my wife on 5th February 2013 (She was nor on menstrual periods neither pregnant) , later in due time of three menstrual period of her, I did not said or done any RUJU (we were staying in two different cities in due time), after completion of 3 months from the date of TALAQ pronounced,.. More
1)If a man says to his wife: "If you do not want to be with me, then you can divorce me, I do not intend to divorce you" And then the woman says, "you can be sure that I take from you a divorce" But they both thought that it was all the same to what she says it does not matter because the woman can not take a divorce. Neither of them did not know that.. More
Selam aleküm, my story is a bit complicated. I'm just escaped from my violent, psychopathic man from Turkey. I am a German woman who has lived in Alanya for almost 9 years and since October 2005, I am married with this Muslim man. At first everything was quite normal, but he had hit me in the time already 2 times and so much so that there the police.. More
Asallam U alaikum, Could you tell me if husband said statement in anger 'get out of here' without intention of divorce, however because couple were unsure of ruling wife said say 'take me back' and husband said 'i take u back ' on the wife's request however he didn't have any intention of divorce to begin with, is this still not counted as one divorce.. More
AoA. I've a very serious question i am confused between my husband and mother. My husband don't wants very frequent phone calls and meetings with my family although he is always there to help them whenever is required but he is not very friendly with them. And my mother wants him to act as his son and not son in law. She wants frequent phone calls from.. More
Assalam I alaikum I wrote to you in the month of rajab last year ah I got a reply from you. The problem I am facing is getting worst. My husband bought me all the way from my country to the us.we signed the papers here and got married. My husband has been very harsh to me all through out and very insulting. He insults me on a daily basis about my looks,.. More
Assalamalaicum, There are two verdicts by Islamic court (lower islamic court and higher islamic court) in my case. My question is that my ex wife follows only first verdict issued by lower islamic court and accordingly completed her iddat and at same time the trial of higher Islamic court under process. At the time of appeal higher islamic had also.. More
I once said to my wife some words that would be considered implicit divorce. My intention wasn't to divorce her but to let her know my displeasure. I had always thought that the words have to explicit for divorce to occur. Later on, I read on IslamQA there is an opinion that even implicit words lead to divorce. The shaykh said the strongest opinion.. More
Salaam, I have divorced my wife 3 times and returned her back based upon a scholars advice that I can invalidate on of the divorce since it was out of anger. We encountered another issue and she wrote me an email asking for divorce. I swore/vow that upon a second request for divorce in any form from her, I shall honor her request. She wrote me another.. More
What is the islamic solution if the husband belives that our prophet SAWS was created from the light of Allah? or he SAWS is created from light? He dont bow to any nor call upon any except Allah nor is involed in visiting graves for haraam purpose or wearing haraam amulets ...there is no other shirk noticed...it seems that he believe only becuz he has.. More
We got married last year. I live in UAE and my husband in the USA, as our reception is yet to happen. In Feb, we had a fight and I end up asking my husband for separation, he didn’t divorce me, but messaged "i free you from me for your benefit". In Mar, we had another argument and he sent me an email saying divorce, divorce, divrce….& that time.. More
Assalamu alaikum, What can i do when i can not get divorce in my country from my husband? I live in Finland. I have asked from several islamic center in my country but all of them stopped helping me even i have proved that my husband have already other fiancee and i have picture where he is touching her even they are not married. I have also much messages.. More
Assalam o Alaikum brother I would like to ask sumthing from you as you have better knowledge. When I got married to my husband he said that I could ask for separation or divorce whenever i wanted. Does that mean he has given me right to divorce myself whenever i want? We had some issues in our marriage and I didnt want to be with him anymore. I am not.. More
Is it permissible for my husband to stop my children from seeing my family. He has had disputes with them in the past and is always full of resentment for them. He only lets me take my youngest two children and not my two eldest because he thinks that they will somehow poison their minds against him. I can confirm that this is not the case and that.. More